Women were advised to avoid the ego xpenis. Be thankful for that.(yeah I know they don't seem to listen) 
If you could remember in another life form, you didn't fare well with it's drive to dominate. It's burning desire to Lie to gain entrance into what was not given to it, but to another. It is persistent and will weakend you eventually. 
To stand erect in it's podium of deceit is quite a thrill but a harsh let down... for it can not live in the Now, though it will try over and over to remain there. It will make promises it can never deliver.

Paul was simply sparing you of such misery.

Here's the Divine secret you might have missed.

The Truth is always spoken within........for sHe who speaks outwardly is also sHe who defiles herself.
 Keep silent and stay Pure./ 

Get near a xpenis and you will get implanted with obligation to this world. No one can serve both Masters. Engage it in any way and You wilfully kneel to its dominance and be ruled by it. It will rule your mouth and tongue and body.,,,and then your life. It can not be Honest with you. So do not expect such intimacy. Lest you become betrayed in the spot light. 

My advice is to follow the wisdom of the Apostle of the Mystery of Christ. If you play with an outward xpenis...... you will get poked.
Seek out your inner Husband in the secret private place of your Home to answer your questions. Let Him answer you directly in inward intimacy.
....as He Loves you and cares for you. Let your intimacy not be defiled by the sons of men. They are not attracted to Truth. If you ever noticed, God doesn't seem to engage the outward world either with outward passion. Follow him or her. This is wise.

Word to the wise :   It (the drive of men) will make an image of you after it's likeness.

Halal

Edited 2 times by Halalprogram2 02/15/15 11:16.