Hi Granny and Movingalways do not hear much of K. Krishnamurti here even less U.G. Krisnamurti.But they certainly shake up your thinking processes.

Love is never an object that you can receive or give.Love is the deep recognition of yourself in another, the two different sides of the coin coming together as Granny has experienced. In other words when you say that you love somebody, you see yourself, as love, behind the eyes of the other and vice versa. In other words the other is no longer another. You can never maintain seriously that A loves B and B loves A. In love both disappear, A disappears and B disappears, and what remains is but LOVE ITSELF.

In other words you as a lover a wife, you disappear and that is how it should be. And hwne the husband has disappeared from the realtionship, where is the wife? The Wife is no more a wife. For she has dissolved into Love itself. And obviously that is how you want it is it not? A wave along side another wave connected by a trough is similiar in it's analogy, one is the husband the other the wife. At first you think you are surrounded by waves and that is all you have to contend with until you discover.......you are the Ocean.:heartgif.gif